by The Observer
[The lunch bunch was a recent sighting reported on the Dimensions site; it is
blended here with another event that resulted in some very happy consequences.
Hopefully the experience of the participants makes you feel as warm as it did
me.]
Charlotte Masters, Roberta Hummel and Marilyn Faust came from the same
metropolitan area but attended different schools. They first met at fat camp
when they were fourteen. Each was already a little chubby.
They enjoyed the camp --- the canoe and horseback rides, overnight stays in
the woods, passes to the movies on Saturday night (which they all used as an
opportunity to enjoy otherwise forbidden goodies). They even lost a little
weight by not bending the rules too obviously --- but once they got back to
regular public school they all gained their loss back plus a little more as
well.
Over the next several years they stayed in contact, three heavy girls united
against peer and familial pressure of their parents to "do something" about
their weight. They occasionally did things together and helped one another
with their studies. Food was frequently involved.
Marilyn, the 5' 6" brunette was the most outspoken --- simply declaring that
she was "too busy" to try to change the way God had made her. She had a solid
3.5 grade point average, was active in the student body, and stayed out of
trouble. She was also the heaviest, graduating high school at 175 lbs.
Charlotte, the 5"7 blond was more pragmatic. She had to buy her own clothes
and so tried not gain too much in high school. But she shared Marilyn's
feelings that, while the effort may have been very well intended, the camp was
simply another control mechanism of society trying to grind people down. She
graduated at around 160 lbs.
Roberta, the shortest at 5' 4" was also a brunette, and because of her height
the most noticeably plump of the trio. She was also the best cook and
conversationalist, in addition to being a seamstress. Some felt she was
possibly also the sparkplug of the group. At graduation she weighed 170
pounds.
The three girls worked at different jobs during the summer, but for financial
reasons all elected to attend Junior College in the fall. It was in this
fashion that they wound up being classmates. They had heard of the fabled
"freshman fifteen" and it was Roberta who first suggested that they might try
to make it the "freshman forty."
"What for?" Charlotte had initially asked.
"Because none of us likes dieting anyway, so while we are still young we
should see what its like to be a little fat. I have heard some people like it
once they get used to it --- and I have a hunch that, for me, its true."
"Times are changing," Marilyn agreed. "You can get decent clothes form all
sorts of places today. I certainly don't want to go anorexic just to please
some fashion designer."
"I thought I was the only one who felt that way," responded Charlotte. "I know
I am not a skinny person by nature. All my family is heavier than me right
now --- but I have always felt guilty about enjoying myself."
"That's the point," said Roberta. "I have read that if a person is
comfortable with themselves and their weight other people will be comfortable
with them. I would like to see what happens if we give our bodies permission
to become what they want to be."
Each of the three girls was living with their parents and all had jobs, which
led them to decide to eat lunch together for what would be for each of them
the largest meal of their day.
This was the background of what Jim Browning, sophomore and admirer of larger
women generally, saw going on in the Junior College cafeteria that October ---
three already plump girls cheerfully enjoying a calorie laden entree plus
dessert each day. Not knowing the background he marveled but did not
understand.
One day it would be "all you can eat" pizza. On another burritos with a
burger. Another mashed potatoes and meat loaf. Whatever the main course it
would be accompanied by a piece of pie, cake, or ice cream. And it did not
take long for the results to begin to show.
For Roberta the gain came in her belly and hips, for Marilyn in her chest and
arms, for Charlotte it was in here torso. The respectively clothing for each
girl was becoming tauter by the week as Jim watched from afar. Mike Rogers
and Ralph Morgan were occasional spectators as well. After a month or two the
three men were each thinking how beautiful and uninhibited the girls were.
But it was Jim who moved first, slipping Charlotte an invitation to go to a
local Italian restaurant.
He was too skilled an FA to even ask her about her eating habits on a first
date. She might, or might not, reveal that in time. But for now he wanted to
build a relationship. He instead made a point of being a gentleman,
apologizing for being "old fashioned" as he pampered her by insisting on
opening and closing her door. He asked her permission before discussing
various subjects, and responded to anything she said with a question designed
to show interest in what more she would have to say. As a result she was so
focused on the romantic flavor of the evening that dessert was just a way of
prolonging the experience.
Charlotte's report to Marilyn and Roberta made them more than a little curious
and they made a point of getting to know Jim by inviting him to sit with them
the next week. He happily obliged --- initially to Charlotte's discomfiture,
but this relaxed when Mike and Ralph made their moves. Jim welcomed their
involvement but gently made it clear that he considered Charlotte to be "off
limits" by introducing the other two girls to them as "her" friends.
The three growing girls now had three fellas in their lives who were
enthralled by them as human beings. They began to plan and carry out
activities together, making food and weight gain a natural part of a larger
relationship.
None of the girls quite made forty pounds that first year, but they did
develop some very significant relationships. In fact, Charlotte and Roberta
wound up marrying their new friends a few years later. Marilyn wanted to
build a career before settling down and went on to do so, but like her friends
also found happiness as a BBW. And Ralph did find someone else equally as
large and sweet.